The problem with being a (gentle) man is one and only one…
Drive
We have this drive to do better that the next guy on anything and everything possible, even if it kills us…
That source of ambition is legendary….
It can be from trying to do better than your Dad, i.e. he did a Bachelors degree in Commerce, and you want to go grab a Masters in Financial Economics from LSE…. (er, Chanel and AuntiePop/TrampChild, LSE is the London School of Economics)
Or it can be trying to match your sister’s ease in reading through 500 pages of a Tom Clancy classic like without-remorse….
Hmmn, it can even be an inherent desire to always have your personal thermostat burning others to that explicit degree
Anyways, whatever way you look at it, the effects are also legendary and fall both ways…
This same innate desire is what certain-chics recognize and want a piece of you… (Igiss, you with me here???)
This same drive is what dope employers see in you and want to sway you with sexy perks just to make sure you stay thinking with (read for) them (Dante, say word…)
Also, this same ambition is what makes you as a person strive for personal goals… (SoloDawgKing, wsup playa)
The other side to it is what makes you not recognize that you haven’t complimented Mrs.B2B’s cool new pink top that makes you want to… (ahem, ahem)
And then again, the same drive is what makes you miss out what Lil Jay was trying to say when he was exclaiming his smiles at you…
And yeah, also that deep desire to succeed is what makes you see things only one way and not get to that humbling position with the Lord…
I must admit that sometimes it is really easy, and more times that not….
I am actually clueless…
Saying it how it is has and never will be a plus sign… (although there a few circumstances, when it can er, be a sort of blessing in disguise)
But know-ticing and paying attention to all the small details and putting in some effort are what will allow you to somehow make a balance possible… with a little help from TheManUpstairs though not missing out….
ThankstoTheLovelyLadytoo
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20,000 hits… and counting dawgs, and ladies
Hello.
I can has firsties?
Yes I can.
ok,thx.Bai.
while you’re at explaining things dawg, how does somebody exclaim smiles at you?
I’d rushed for these socks…. petesmama at least you got them.
dawg, this is some how expected of every man and I hate It…makes life more harder. Am sure you’d not want any less from b2b jr.
The [gentle] man speaketh…
if it wasnt for this drive, and the egging on from the lady folk we would still be reclining in the caves because ish like the stone age would have never happened.
Lol…hahaha omberireeki? ‘Nna Igis… ‘nno yenda kundetera ebizibu.
Wait Igis went to LSE? And did an MA in Financial Economics…
Shitdamn!
I mean really am I that dump? how come Dante Igiss and King get the cool stuff?
Ahem Chanel, at least u get dumb…Me, I get to crush on them cool people. Imagine.
Oh, you are such a man.
And that is NOT a compliment.
** holding stomach laughing so hard. falls off chair **
Miss Cheri we need to talk
Props dawg. I like the way you write. It just flows without you even trying !! its Unik. Good stuff.
20,000 hits???!! Dayum. I am miles away from that.
yeah we like the gentlemen…
Attey why are u lolling so hard Igis?
@ Miss Cheri. The comments are out of this world
amazing…and yet I’m haharing the innuendos, may you pls make one hilarious one of me, can’t say I know what it’s like to laugh at myself, lol.
I like the way you pay Mrs.B2B a subtle compliment, and go on to talk about the pride you have for your son, again, ever so subtly
well done
Good stuff over here… and so true! Why is it that when a woman gets drive, people look at her askance?
This blog got me thinking – I’ve posted a long winded reaction (kinda) to it.
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dude,this is anatha raise the bar post..what with lovely getting all this mapenzi..grudgingly,i’ll say good stuff